Choices

No choice.

Spoilt for choice.

Making the right choice.

A Gush of Wind

A gush of wind.

Ahah.

And Then....?

Serabut.

Study.

Analyze.

Found.

And then......?

U.M.L

It was wonderful to have been defined as a U.M.L.

Chronology of Reasons

To have lost trust in a loved one, only to discover your own self

To have lost a loved one, only to find others who can love you

To have lost a friend as a sister, only to reunite with a long lost childhood bestfriend

To have frustrations at work, only to discover the crave for higher education and other career options

To have been criticized for eccentric ideas, only to be given the belief by a mentor that the ideas are acceptable

To have encountered new acquaintances, only to force you to think and make wise decisions

To have perserverance, only to achieve the ultimate dream.

To have. To live. To life. To everything.

Escapism - Infedility

I finally understand men' s concept of escapism, not that I totally agree with it, but I understand.

I was in a meeting last Thursday, and that's when I realized that I'm doing it, what a lot of men do, especially married men.

I begin to understand why they just 'agree' with their wives, even though they disagree, and I begin to understand why 'unhappy' men resort to infidelity.

Please understand that I am not saying that infidelity is right, and I definitely am NOT a big fan of infidelity in relationships and marriages but I'm beginning to understand why some people do it.

Husbands agree to their wives just to keep the peace and harmony, to avoid further conflicts.

They adopt the ' The wife is always right'  ideology.

Husbands tend to phase out when they are with their wives, if they are unhappy, wishing that they are somewhere else.

Unhappy husbands tend to find excitement 'out of the house' to escape reality.

This process often lead to infidelity for some, and the next thing they know, they are cheating on their wives.

In my case:

Me= Husband    ;   Work/Meetings/Bosses = Wife

Last Thursday I was doing it. I didn't realize it at first, and then it hit me. I'm a cheating husband! I'm cheating on my wife.

I don't cheat on relationships but I'm cheating on my work.

Guess I'm probably just as bad.