Sunday, July 27, 2008

Tying the Knot- Ready or Not

I won't do it till I'm ready. So stop pressuring me. I don't want to be a Runaway Bride. I don't want to tie the knot and appeal for a divorce a month later. I know myself too well, more than anyone do. So stop pressuring me to say "I do" because I am NOT ready.

Although a few of my 'best friends from heaven' have been hitched and some more are getting hitched, I am not in any way pressured by this.

I am neither pressured by age factor. I feel it's wrong to get married for the wrong reasons; be it age or peer pressure.

To me, marriage is sacred. It is not a 'trend' that we have to keep up to just because it's the 'in-thing' among our friends.

Marriage is not just about having the 'coolest wedding of everyone's dreams', it is not just about which designer gown we want to wear and which range of shoes to choose from. It is also NOT just about what the door gifts will be and whether our 'hantaran' is 'gempak' or not.
Basically marriage means more than just 'The Event'.

There are many things you have to consider before you decide to commit yourself into marriage.

As for me I have to be:

1. Psychologically ready
2. Mentally ready
3. Financially ready
4. Getting married to the MAN of MY CHOICE ( as I will be the one living with him kan?)
5. Ready Ready Ready

I will write about the MAN of MY CHOICE when i feel like it, next time.

Till then, goodbye.

Sunday, July 6, 2008


Hidup ini penuh dugaan; dugaan datang dalam pelbagai bentuk dan rupa ; Ada yang cantik, buruk, kurus mahupun gemuk.

Dugaan datang dengan tujuan bagi menguji seseorang. Sekiranya kita berjaya menghadapi dugaan tersebut, ia bermakna kita tabah. Ia juga bermakna kita telah mengambil satu langkah ke hadapan, menjadikan kita lebih matang dan mencorakkan diri kita menjadi insan yang lebih baik dari yang dahulu.

Dugaan merupakan satu pengajaran, dan datangnya setiap dugaan itu pasti ada sebab musababnya yang kita tidak tahu. Pada kebiasaannya juga, tersembunyi hikmah disebalik setiap dugaan yang kita hadapi.

Things happen for a reason, it's just that we don't know the reason-yet. Later on when we look back at what has happened and reflect, then we may be able to put the pieces of the puzzle together and figure out the real picture.

Pengajaran yang paling penting apabila kita didatangkan dengan apa jua bentuk dugaan pun adalah kita perlu 'BERSABAR' (something that I am not good at but forced to learn and learning).

So yeah..sabarjelah kan...?kan kan kan?

Saturday, July 5, 2008


A journey home from work, squeezed in the usual overcrowded LRT, squashed between other passengers and my Cina Looking Tudung Wearing friend. I was chatting to my friend while struggling to hold my breath (as passengers at this hour don't exactly smell great) when something caught my attention.

A cute Chinese couple, both in secondary school uniform taking the ride home from school on the LRT.

Standing amongst the tired sweaty passengers, these two lovebirds were facing each other, the girlfriend leaning against the LRT door. The lustful boyfriend was leaning VERY close to her, his head touching hers, will definitely drive their parents mad should they ever witness this.

The girlfriend's white skin flushed as he was nuzzling on to her, the look of love can be seen in her eyes.

Both around 13 and no more than 14 years of age, this teenage couple were in their own fantasy world, oblivious of their surroundings.

I tried not to look (it's rude, regardless) and told my friend to checkout the young lovebirds. She took a glimpse but when I took a second glance, I caught them them kissing passionately; a lip-locking French Kiss.

Gosh, it shocked me of how 'daring' they were. Must have been a real love-thrilling adventure for them kissing in an overloaded LRT full of sweaty people.

If only their parents know.....

Tuesday, July 1, 2008


Tonight's rehearsal, I jiwa kosong.

Just couldn't feel it.